Thursday, January 16, 2014

Hold yourself accountable-

You know, every year it's the same thing, we always make resolutions toward health, happiness, and success or something like that. Yet-- a week if that in, we give up? Why? Why do we give up on the things that seem so important to us? 

Well I made up my mind in December that 2014 would be different. I was going to make goals, hold MYSELF accountable, and ask for help when I need it. So far, I've deleted everyone who isn't a positive influence in my life, I am on day 16 of a fitness challenge that I've noticed results already from, and even empowered a few others to do it! 

I'm making myself a priority, and working on letting things go to spend more time as a family. Trying to cherish every second for us rather than working on things that aren't going to matter in 10 hours, 10 days, or 10 years ❤️ I'm calling it te 10/10/10 rule. 

I'm also taking control (as much as I can) of my mental health. But with the help of friends, family and especially my husband I having kicking major ass! I have bad days still, I have weak moments, but I'm having more good days than bad which is a success in my book. 

My husband lost his job, January 3- employment he had for 12 years. BUT surprisingly thanks to an enormous amount of support it hasn't knocked us down. Financially it will be harder than ever before right now, but emotionally we are strong in knowing we have each other and wherever we are- that's home. 

So for today, tomorrow and everyday don't wait for someone to hold you accountable do it for yourself. Do it for your family, or your kids. Happiness is important in life because without it, nothing else really matters. 

I pray that others help lift me up on those down days and that you truly take the new year opportunity to make this year yours. No excuses for yourself, YOU have the ability to make each day a good day. And if you are trying and the devil keeps getting in the way, ask for help I know plenty of people who would be happy to send some love whenever you need it. ❤️

Make some goals, stick to them, and embrace life❤️

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